Includes bibliographical references (p. [179]-182).

Do you speak the same language? : Be an immigrant--dive into foreign soil! -- What are you trying to say? : Make the most of verbal and nonverbal communication -- What it's all about : speaking another's language : decipher your spouse's "foreign" dialect -- Learning your partner's language : build on your common ground -- I married an alien--but from what planet? : Unlearn old habits that don't work -- Who's listening? : Learn to listen to more than words -- Women speak, men speak : build a bridge between your left brain and your right -- Translate and you'll connect : change your words to what works for your spouse -- Feelings : Where do they fit in? : Develop a "feelings" vocabulary -- Storms of the mind : manage your mind-set toward your marriage -- You can choose what works in your marriage : bonus: choose the sweet life.